Saturday, May 31, 2014

It's bad enough that Snapchat's CEO Evan Spiegel basically lied to the app's users by telling them that their messages were actually temporary and selling a service based on the ephemeral nature of "snaps" as well as secrecy and privacy. The app is anything but. On top of multiple ways for each and every snap to be saved by any user it is sent to, the company also failed to secure the Find Friends feature of the app allowing attacks that garnered the names and phone numbers of millions of users.

But now...now emails from this asshole's days in Greek life have resurfaced and proved him to be an even bigger douche than anyone first thought.

Here are some snippets:

"Hope at least 6 girl sucked your dicks last night. Cuz that didn't happen for me."

"fuckbitchesgetleid"

"do not touch the stripper pole inside...its going to live in the house for a few days while i try to figure out how to save it"

"action needed to get pi phis fucked up"




























"Have some girl put your large kappa sigma dick down her throat"

"Sigma nu decided to stop being gay"

"ill roll a blunt for whoever sees the most tits tonight"

"so it appears SAE and TDX are releasing their Fall Collection of Whack Tanks for Sororisluts"

"i mean no shit you think hot bitches like lazertag? (i thought the whole point was to shoot lazers at fat girls..?)"










So yeah...I think you get the picture. Women are bitches, sluts, and here for his and his Greek buddies pleasure in the drunken debauchery ragefests. "Gay" is a perfectly acceptable term and interchangeable term for stupid. Fat chicks exist to be the butt of his jokes. Basically, he's a misogynistic, ignorant bastard who spent his college career drinking, partying, and disrepecting as many people as possible. He is the epitome of a Bro. And before you go defending him, these aren't 20 years old. They're from less than 4 years ago. He's 23, made an app that does not fulfill its promises, turned down a 3 billion dollar deal with Facebook, and still lives with his dad. People can surely change in 4 years time, but given his current status in life, I doubt he's changed all that much. These sorts of attitudes are ingrained as we have seen over and over again in the wake of the Elliot Rodgers murders. They don't just disappear. It takes life experience and exposure to remold those kinds of cultural beliefs, and this guy still lives with Daddy. Not to mention he and his business partner are still entangled in a lawsuit where a 3rd Bro has stated he should receive stock and capital in the company as part of the creating team behind Snapchat (and there are emails to prove it). Has he really changed all that much then? Doubtful. 

To his credit, he issued a half assed apology stating his is mortified that these emails were leaked. But what's he mortified about? The fact that this could cost him money now that he's turned down Facebook? He says he no longer feels that way towards women. I want proof. Employ more women. The tech industry is highly sexist already and women in the tech field often make much less than their male counterparts. Even Google admits to only having around 30% female workers. The co-creator of Rap Genius, a rap/hip-hop annotation web site, had to resign this week after making misogynistic comments about Elliot Rodgers' manifesto. Last month, the CEO of an advertising platform, RadiumOne, was terminated after a domestic violence incident. Programmers have bragged about recruit parties involving naked women in a hot tub. Women in bikinis have been used for start-up pitches. Sexist apps have been showcased at tech conferences (like an app named Titstare where you take photos of yourself staring at tits. I mean, seriously?). The industry is drowning in misogyny.

If he wants to make changes, employ more women and pay them equal pay, break the sexist cycle that exists in the industry, and start doing more to actually make changes in our culture and especially in the industry he works in now. A few lines of a public apology means absolutely shit without actions to back it up. Until then, until we see action, he remains a stereotypical Greek douche and needs to grow the fuck up.


I'm hoping that this is the kind of message that he sends everyone and that it wasn't my pics specifically that turned him on to this little fantasy. I mean, what the fuck kind of compliment does he think this is? I only have headshots posted...There's nothing even slightly risque and certainly nothing that would indicate I would be ready and willing to meet a perfect stranger, never speak to him, fuck him, and us go our separate ways never to speak again. I'm not saying I've never had a one night stand. There's certainly risks involved in doing so. But, nothing good can come from meeting up with a stranger through on online dating site that you've never spoken for an anonymous, wordless fuck. I can get laid any time I fucking want. Seriously. Why would this even be marginally appealing? Part of the turn on for women is mental. We're thinkers. We like the build up, the flirting, and the chase. This is a cheap porn fantasy at best. He's basically saying "hey ur pics look good girl why don't you put up and shut up"

ugh.

I told him to try a glory hole.

--jenniy


Another creepy guy named Mike who fooled me with seemingly normal conversation for about 5 messages.  This really wasn't too bad, it was pretty mild actually.  It was when I kept talking to him that I started to get creeped out.  Mike is into trampling...information which he volunteered out of the blue.  Then he wants to meet up and instead of being 9 hours away like his profile says, he's really only 3 hours away and kept insisting that is what is profile said.  You know... because I can't read or something.  And that is when I stopped talking to him.    I should have stopped right away but...sometimes I like to give people rope and see what they do with it.
Friday, May 30, 2014


Yes, I feel perfectly safe giving my number to a complete stranger who wants to make me obey his most perverted of demands.

I get the whole S&M thing. I do. I've dabbled in that myself and it has its moments, surely. But, you don't just hand over your body to a complete fucking stranger and say Here, have at it! And really, given how much porn guys on the Internet tend to consume, I don't want to know what his most perverted of demands is. I cringe just thinking about it honestly.

Also, are we talking about 10 toes? No, I don't think I could handle 10 toes going into any of my orifices, but this is really not very specific here.

--jenniy
Thursday, May 29, 2014

"I can also be as discrete as you need me to be"...as I whisk you away into a world of sexual slavery, or leave your body lying by the side of the road where you'll most likely never be found because you were so discrete.

Maybe the world isn't the dark, creepy place I think it is.  Maybe I'm jaded and paranoid and fearful and this guy is just a lonely truck driver who wants company.  Maybe I've watched too many horror movies and flicks about kidnapping and sexual slavery and serial killers.  Maybe I'm just very aware that if anything happens to me, Liam Neeson is not coming to save me.

...But if he wants company, why does he care what the company looks like?  Why would he suggest a cute college gal join him?

I just can't wrap my brain around it.  I'm going to choose to believe that this guy just might be Rusty Nail from "Joy Ride" and the LAST thing I'm going to do is send him an email to see if he is serious.


Wednesday, May 28, 2014


Eugene, Eugene, Eugene... I can fully respect the need you feel to have a satisfying sexual relationship with your partner. I really can. It's often a very important aspect to a solid relationship, and I find when I am often hit on by people with partners whose relationships lack that quality. But, is this really the right way to do it? You're on a free dating site. This is the first message you send. And if anyone dares to be interested in this bullshit spiel, are they really going to message you back and say, "well, I would be interested in you, but sorry, I'm not good at what they call the sex?" If you think that's how it's going to work, you're even dumber than I suspect and that's pretty damn hard to beat... --jenniy

And then Shawn, the good looking guy who quoted "Silence of the Lambs" as his headline in this post from yesterday, sent me this charming first message.  This annoys the fuck out of me.  There.  I said it.  I'm lucky enough that most dating sites don't allow people to send pics in their messages. But on my list of "Irritating First Messages" it would win second place right after THIS QUESTION and let's not even talk about those people who send creepy, close up shots of their genitals.

I don't get it.  I really, really don't.

I didn't respond.  Shawn/Buffalo Bill deleted his profile within 15 minutes.
Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Well, that escalated rather quickly... And what the fuck? This guy totally misses out on the fact that he's messaging a woman. I mean, really... I know I said that there's more to a lady than her clitoris, but goddamn, why would you skip over all the lady parts entirely? SEX IS NOT JUST ABOUT YOU, GUYS!!! --jenniy

I found Shawn on Tinder.  He was really cute.  I wish I would have read this headline before I swiped left.  Anyone who quotes Silence of the Lambs in the headline on an online dating site should probably be avoided.  And then he sent me a message... check in tomorrow for that one. 

Monday, May 26, 2014


We can have a picnic and then catch a movie...the three of us. Just me, you, and my clit. She's really into finger sandwiches and action flicks but you'll have to buy her a tub of popcorn all to herself. She's a bit of a hog when it comes to food. --jenniy

P.S. Since you've obviously never had a proper introduction to anatomy and sexuality, there's way more to a lady's satisfaction than her clitoris. You should figure that out. Really.